Pickpocketed... Violated? Or Grateful?

Have you ever been targeted and stolen from? Makes you feel violated, victimized, week, angry, sad, and insulted. 

Your story builds up in your head.

"why did this happen to me, whos fault is it, what could I have done differently, I'm A loser, I'm an idiot for letting that happen, your an idiot for letting this happen" 

You place blame. You take out your anger on others. You replay it in your head. What could I have done differently.

Well, we did all of those things when we got pick pocketed our wallet at the mall. We were bad. We hated each other that day for sure. Nina was blaming and belittling Roger, Roger was sad for Nina but mad at how she handling it. Or vice versa. 

But then when we really looked at the situation. We started changing the story. 

We figured whoever took it. Needed it way more then we did. 

Plus things could have been way worse. 

If Roger or Nina would have seen them do it. What would have happened? 

What if Roger would have confronted the person? What if that person really did not want to get caught? What if that person took out a knife or gun? what if the wallet wasn't the only thing they took? I mean think about it. they are straight up criminals. They don't care about you. weather you are alive, they don't care if you have kids, a wife and amazing dog.

They don't want to go to jail. 

We started just being grateful. Grateful to be alive, Grateful to have everything that they didn't take. 

Things are never as bad as we take them. They are never as bad as what we make them seem.

So if you find yourself in a situation. React, Get mad, Get sad, Let it out. 

But then. Start changing the story. Start being grateful for what you still have, what they can't take away.

Don't be a victim for ever. Start being grateful. Know that they needed it way more then you. You gave them charity. You donated to their family or situation.

Then move on with your happy life. Go back on those date nights. Hang out with your kids. Do all the things they can't take away from you.

Make sure your and your families LOVE TANK IS FULL. Cause that is all that really matters.

Do you have a story like this. We would love to hear it. So we know and you know that WE ARE NOT ALONE!!!

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